need a powerful advice about isolation/arousal
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Hi all. I have a major sticking point and I can’t figure out how to fix it. I am into pickup for a long time. Last year and a half I was practicing Way of Gun. While I was practicing Way of Gun I had several lays and only half of them were due to cold approach, others were somehow connected to my social circle. But that’s nothing compared to the time I’ve spent picking up. I am very disappointed by my pickup effectiveness. It is easier for me to fuck a prostitute instead of picking up. So lets get to my problem 
If I approach girls, only some of them will isolate. Amongst those that I can isolate only some of them will have sex with me. I approach only lonely women during day-game. I don’t go to clubs and I won’t go there in the future because I don’t like clubs. My social status is a bit above average, my looks are average, I live alone, I have a car and a great job and I am 23.
What do I think of it? I think that if I can’t change woman’s mind about something, then it will be her way, or no way. If she thinks that only a boyfriend can have sex with her and I can’t change her mind about it, then I either have be her boyfriend, or go look for another woman. I also most of the times can’t arouse her enough if she doesn’t let me to do so.
I am from Ukraine and I live in Ukraine. Is it possible that cultural differences are so big that some stuff is not as usefull in my country than in yours? I assume most folks that are reading this are from USA/UK. Maybe ukranian women are less sexually open. What do you think of it? Any advice anybody?
Ofcourse, I am looking for ONS since I am practicing Way of Gun. I am not into doing many dates with a same girl because most of the time it is boring to go on a second date with a girl with whom I didn’t sleep yet. I had countless dates and got bored of them. I am also trying to find a way to still have fun on dates.
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Hello, all. I just wanted to say thanks for all of your posts. I’ve just read all of your posts again, and now I really understand your posts better, and I understand that you were giving some actually great advice!
Now lets talk about how I actually solved my problem.
I’ve got utterly frustrated and bored with pickup, I slowly gave it up till about April, though I still had few lays in that period. I gave up kickboxing and the gym. And then suddenly BOOM: the pickup became too fun!!! More fun than it had ever been to me!
Hard to tell what happened, and I really don’t care much, but I think that my issues aroused themselves from my unconcious, and I spent some time trying to figure them out instead of persisting and pushing myself on doing same stuff as I previously did.
My pickup isn’t supereffective yet, but at least I am not complaining about it any more because it is fun any way even if you don’t get laid. There are not much activities in life that are worth the time spent (in my opinion), but pickup is really worth it!