Re: good stuff: Thanks.
As far as extended foreplay…
Okay, again, I can only speak for myself. I am not a sex expert – just an enthusiastic amateur, like everyone else. But, for me, an hour of straight foreplay sounds like a LOT. As in, the *too much* kind of "a lot". Like, if a guy I was with started in on that much foreplay I would assume, rightfully, that he was trying to tease me.
Which is not to say that teasing or being teased can’t be worthwhile.
However, there are people who I guess really do do an elaborate dance every time. So here are my thoughts on the whole "warm her up first" phenomenon, I guess:
I think, if a girl needs an hour of foreplay, it means she’s not attracted, or very inexperienced, or both. Women DO get aroused in a different way from guys, and they take longer to heat up, but if you have tight attraction game you will be keeping her at a slow simmer anyway.
An hour of foreplay speaks, to me, of grinding out a purely mechanical reaction in the absence of real heat. Again, I am not a sexologist. This is purely based on my own experience, and I may be taking my personal experience of sex for granted.
So, in short: no. No, you shouldn’t have to fool around for an hour every time. On the other hand, you do have to keep attraction up.
And, whether you’re putting in an hour or two minutes of foreplay, first enjoy yourself; then remember, routine is the death of good sex.
On 4/14/2007 7:29:37 PM, Riker_AUT wrote:
>This is truly good stuff.
>Hitori, would you also say
>that "Foreplay" falls under
>this rule (i.e, if I as a man
>don’t want to foreplay around
>tonight, I should not?). I
>guess that’s my biggest
>mistake I make – with the last
>girl I had over frequently
>this was an absolute bother,
>since she really needed (or
>seemed to want) all that
>hour-long petting around,
>kissing around etc.
>For me that’s a total
>turn-off, but maybe I should
>have done what I wanted
>instead – and didn’t.
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