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Epsilon,

Thanks for these questions and allowing me the opportunity to clarify….

Epsilon wrote:

>joseph_went_south wrote:
>
>>Dude, I am almost 38 and I
>get
>>more attraction from women
>in
>>their early 20s than I
>ever
>>have in my entire life.
>
>That’s pretty vague, and could
>be interpreted any number of
>ways. You might simply be
>more experienced and thus be
>noticing more female signals
>for example. Or you might
>have been a total AFC when you
>were younger. We, the viewing
>public, can’t really tell.
>

Good point. In my case, it’s both. I was a total AFC when I was younger, with some natural tendencies. What I mean is that I was good boyfriend material, but hardly a PUA. The process of getting girlfriends seemed to be pretty random to me.

As for today, I have two MLTR in their early 20s. It’s true that because of social pressures some young women can be uncomfortable with dating someone as old as me. I get around this in a few ways:

1. I realize that even if 90% of the 23 year-olds won’t go for me, 10% will. That means, literally, hundreds of women in my vicinity in any large city.

2. I am discreet. In one case we are more like FBs than MLTR because she has a boyfriend. Since no one knows about our sexual relationship, none of the potential social pressures make any difference.

3. I have friends of all ages. One of my best friends is a 24 year old guy. When I am non-discriminatory with respect to age, then it tends to put other people at ease.

>
>>This
>>is totally an internal
>issue
>>with you.
>
>Totally an internal issue?
>Then why does your next
>sentence seem to imply the
>opposite?
>
>>Girls will go for
>>guys in their age group
>>because they can control
>them
>>and because it’s socially
>>acceptable, not because
>they
>>wouldn’t prefer your meat
>pipe
>>pounding down on them
>after
>>all their bitch
>cockblocking
>>GFs have gone home for the
>>night.
>
>Cockblocks and social
>expectations – how do you
>figure that these are internal
>issues? They sound pretty
>damn external to me.

Those are external issues of course, but the OP’s problem is internal much more than external. I am saying that with the right mindset and some very minimal tactics, as I’ve explained, then none of that matters.

With over 3 billion women on the planet, I find it frustrating and somewhat ridiculous when guys keep getting hung up on stuff like age, height, race and so forth. The OP seemed to me to be resigned to being unable to pick up young women, rather than concerned with practical advice, but I see now that he took a lot of the good advice given here.

If I can regularly generate attraction at will, and currently have two GFs in their early 20s, then surely the OP can do the same. I am 38 and my current GFs ages are 21, 23, 30, 35 and 41.

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