A good indicator to a girl on whether you’re a cool guy or a weirdo AFC is the "awkward" silence. You know, that period of time when there’s a prolonged silence in conversation?
I was waiting in line at a mexican fast food joint, and I noticed this couple sitting down, maybe a first date or something. The guy was a wreck: his back was slouched, he was smiling and giggling WAY too much, and even from 20 feet away I could feel that creepy/nervous vibe on him.
Anyway, so the guy will bring up a conversation, and the girl will respond, and as soon as there’s a silence in between the conversation, the guy begins tapping the table, playing with his utensils, looking around, shifting his body etc. Then he would bring up another topic, and the girl would engage, and so on.
Now this guy was a total wreck, but I bet a lot of you newbies dread that silent time. Maybe you don’t fidget as much, but you’re definitely thinking "okay, what next? What next? Cube? Palm reading? Breakdance on the floor?"
Chill out. because chicks have a sixth sense for nervousness. Rather, if you keep calm and KNOW that she’s attracted to you, you won’t have to do anything during that silence. Maybe she can bring something to the conversation. And if she doesn’t, then who cares? Maybe she’s shy. Maybe she’s tired. You know that you’re the man, so you don’t have to entertain her. Rather, you can reverse it and see how she reacts to that silence, and from that you can respond with conversation that is natural, and not the product of panic.
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