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Guys, this is how I view things. Anyone with anything to say, please give me
some input.. do you agree.. not agree? I’d like to hear.

You all know I how much I passionately enjoy spending my time away from chicks
RTFM’ing people over the internet…

Why do I feel that that is a productive thing to do?

Well look at some of the posts on the board recently.

"Is this age difference ok?"

"Am I LJBF’ed by this one girl?"

"Which girl do I invest my time into?"

What is the common threads of these posts? THEY RESIST THE ASF LIFESTYLE.

ASF is a LIFESTYLE, guys.

AGAIN, to be 100% CLEAR: —> IT IS NOT A SET OF TACTICS. IT IS A LIFESTYLE.

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Here is the deal (VERY SWEEPING GENERALIZATIONS):

A highly rated woman (looks) will be able to SEX 95%+ of all men, but is
limited to who will PROVIDE for her by her skills ("The Rules" mentality, etc)

A highly rated man ($$$) will be able to PROVIDE for 95%+ of women (ie: a
millionaire can get practically any woman to marry him), but is limited to who
he can FUCK by his skills (ASF type skills)

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So we get frusterated that we have a raw deal, or something like that.. since
women can fuck whenever/whoever… all that stuff.

So what is OUR solution -> what is the ASF SOLUTION???

To NOT VALUE any particular chick, and to ACQUIRE THE SKILLSET NECESSARY TO
FIND A DECENT CHICK IN A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME.

ASF is a L-I-F-E-S-T-Y-L-E…

And its a very unusual one.. do NOT believe that other guys can PU chicks.
THEY CANNOT PICKUP CHICKS. It is a MYTH propagated by HOLLYWOOD.

Virtually ALL guys meet women through social circles, work, school, their
commute, and the internet (I get this information from various statistical
studies I’ve seen published in pop-culture magazines).

It is EXTREMELY RARE that a guy meets a girl through a pickup.

Don’t believe it. It’s not true.

Your guy friends will tell you that they could if they wanted to. They can’t.
They are wrong. They are all talk. Don’t even argue with them. They’ll never
listen. Leave them alone.

What we’re doing here, is learning to do what is NORMALLY ONLY POSSIBLE ON
MOVIES.

So as newbies, we get frusterated when we start approaching women, and we get
nowhere.. but what we don’t realize, is that NO GUY could ANYWAY. Even the
very good looking ones cannot get girls equally good looking to them on a
consistent basis (ie: they need the chick to choose THEM), unless they have the
sort of skillset we learn here.

Yes there ARE naturals out there. But even the TOP natural cannot come even
CLOSE to what I can do… and there are MANY MANY far better PUAs than I.

So what’s my point, as related to the board?

Do NOT respond to ANY sort of question with anything other than BUSTING on them
in a nice way, or RTFMs, unless it CONFORMS to the ASF lifestyle.

When you don’t, you are HURTING the person.

You are fostering their belief that there is an easy way… Fostering a false
belief that anything less than FULL PUA status will bring relief.

Last year when I started this, I RESISTED. I’d want to sarge all the girls in
my classes, and my friends of friends, and shit like that. I didn’t want to
meet random women. I’d get hung up on particular targets.. I’d analyze it to
death.. shit like that.

LOOK at all the retarded posts on the board, where people ask questions that
CLEARLY illustrate that they are NOT adopting the ASF WAY OF LIFE.

It’s like this: You CANNOT learn to PU on a regular basis, unless you FULLY
adopt the lifestyle.

Why not?

Because when you haven’t fully adopted it, you cannot manage your state
effectively, nor can you make sound judgements. WHY????? Because you will
ALWAYS have too much VALUE on your particular target.

UNLESS YOU CAN FIND A NEW GIRL IN A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME, YOU WILL ALWAYS
SUFFER IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS.

You can FAKE IT, so that the chick THINKS that you’re willing to walk.. But
eventually, it will catch up with you.

The ONLY way out, is to LEARN to be a PUA. And the only way to do that, is to
NOT value a particular target.

REALIZE that not being able to PU very easily is NORMAL, and that NOBODY who
doesn’t study ASF can on a consistent basis (unless they exploit particular
circumstances).

ASF is a LIFESTYLE, and resisting it is FUTILE!

TylerDurden